Gujaratis scared after Siya scandal, cases of spying on partner increased: Detective reveals girl's details and pregnancy scandal exploded, 3-3 affairs of a naïve girl

Is your partner the same as he looks on the inside, or is there a fierce face hidden behind that innocent face? With the shocking Siya-Ketan case in Pune shaking the entire country, Gujaratis are now not ready to take any risk in a lifelong decision like marriage. There has been an increase in such cases coming to the detective agency. Read in today's Sunday Big Story, from the secret pregnancy of a live-in partner to the shocking cases of a girl who is having an affair with 3 young men at the same time, as well as what cases detectives are getting and what people are demanding to know. For this, Divya Bhaskar spoke to Baldev Puri, Chairman of AMX Detective, and Shiv Shah, Owner of The National Detective Service. People go to the detective agency to know about their partner before marriage, this is nothing new, but after the Siya scandal, now they want to know about the partner's behavior, friend circle, expectations after marriage. Starting with a few cases... Case-1 A few days ago, the detective received a pre-matrimonial case from Gujarat. In which the boy's family wanted to know everything about the girl they had chosen. The girl had shifted from Gujarat to another state for a job. She stayed there for 13 years and suddenly left everything and came back to Ahmedabad. Taking up the case, the detective said not once but 4 times that the girl's past background should also be checked because there must be something wrong with it. At first, the family was not ready to investigate further, but then asked us to check what the girl's current background is and what her behavior is. After this, the detective agency started investigating the girl in Ahmedabad and found that her background here is perfectly okay. It also proved to be perfect in the inquiry. He then gave the entire report to the family. At that time, the agency told the family that even though the inquiry proved to be perfect, there was still something suspicious. Meanwhile, the boy's mother said, "We are satisfied with your detection but if you still feel anything like this, give us 2 days and then we will inform you about whether to do further detection or not." Exactly 2 days later, the boy and his mother went back to the detective agency and told them to take as much money as they could but also detect the girl's past. After getting the family's consent, the detective started to find out about the girl's past and found out that the girl was living in a live-in relationship with a boy. During this time, she became pregnant. Which even his parents didn't know. She came to her house once when she was pregnant. In the meantime, she was very careful but her mother caught her. After which the family came to know about his relationship and brought the girl home to Ahmedabad and started preparing for her marriage. Detectives investigated for 3 to 6 months and brought out all this information and gave it to the boy's family. Case 2 A family chose a girl's profile from a matrimonial site for their son. After that, the boy met the girl in person 2 to 3 times, so he trusted the girl. The boy began to feel that this girl was perfect for him. He told his father that the girl would settle down in our house. With this, my future is bright, but her father got some suspicion, so he came to the detective to check the girl's profile. When the detective started detecting the girl, shocking things came to light because the character turned out to be the opposite of what the girl had innocently said. She denied having a relationship with anyone, but in reality she was in a relationship with 3 boys. She used to meet the trio at different times. When the detective gathered all this evidence, the boy's father cleared the illusion of the son and explained it to him. As a result, his life was saved from being ruined. Case 3 A few days ago, a case came to the detective agency in which he asked the person if he wanted to check any of his partner's activities or background or anything else. The only thing I want to know is what kind of girl I want to marry expect after our marriage. Not only this, many such cases come to the detective agency. After the Siya-Ketan case, people's perceptions have also changed. Want to know these details about the partner Baldev Puri told Divya Bhaskar, "Whenever such incidents happen, the number of cases in the detective agency increases. Earlier, families used to check the character of only boys, today they are checking the character of girls as well. This is a big change. People now check the character of the girls, what their friend group is, who they interact with, how and how much understanding they have, what is the level of passion, how much and how much they spend, how much their parents are involved in their decisions. Seeing the boy and the girl increased the fear in the family Talking about the change in the aftermath of Sia's case, Shiv Shah, owner of The National Detective Service, told Divya Bhaskar, "There is a lot of fear among the people after the recent incident. Especially those who are currently looking for a boy or girl for marriage are more afraid because the next character will not have such a mentality and they come to us for investigation. Talking about the kind of fear in the mind of people who come for detection about their partner, Baldev Puri said, "In earlier times, people used to get a normal background check done, but when such cases come to light, people have a different kind of fear. So they now check the character and family in absolute detail. Now focus on your partner's mental behaviour In this regard, Shiv Shah said, "Earlier, people used to check only the background and character of the other person, but after the Pune incident, they are also checking the medical and mental behaviour of the other person. There is no cure for superstition, so until the superstition of the person about his partner is removed, he gets us checked out. More emphasis on information about a partner's affair Talking about the fear of the people and the change in the inquiry, Baldev Puri further said, "Earlier it was like whether a boy smokes cigarettes or alcohol or not, but in today's day and age, it has become common, so people are not worried about it in today's time. Not only that, he also knows that the partner he has chosen may have been in a relationship with someone else in the past, but he is afraid that the partner is currently having an affair with anyone. If there is an affair, then how much and what kind of person it is, when and where do you meet it, how much time do you spend with each other? People think too much about such things. After the Siya-Ketan incident, people have started checking how much their partner is transparent. Baldev Puri said that in such cases, there is not only fraud every time but the understanding of today's generation is different. They want transparency. Middle-class families also get screened Now families think that they will spend 25-30 thousand rupees less on marriage, but they will get married only after getting the other person checked. According to Shiv Shah, till now it used to be only the upper class and NRI people who used to contact the detective and get such an investigation done, but now the middle class families have also started getting such tests done. So that you don't have to go to court later. Advice on resolving disputes by talking a table Talking about the kind of cases that come in, Shiv Shah said, "At present, we have the highest number of cases of love affair and marriage after 2 or 3 months and there is no doubt. Apart from this, people who have been living in a live-in relationship for five years are also coming. I want to tell everyone that first of all, you should be loyal to your character. Secondly, if there is a dispute between the two, it should be resolved by talking the table. Baldev Puri considers a background check of a partner as an insurance of married life. They say that when you buy a car, you insure it. Just as the more expensive a car you buy, the more expensive the insurance is, similarly, getting a background check done by a partner is a kind of marital life insurance. If you want to undergo a prematrimonial check, give more importance to the person's background check. He further said that even if you invite 25 to 50 guests less to the wedding, get it checked because it is better to spend a little money than to lose a partner for the rest of your life. Because in the case of Siya Ketan, preparations were made for the wedding, the charter was also booked, in such a situation, crores of rupees were booked. Yet, in the end, this is how Ketan died. In such a situation, the background check of the opposite character should also be done according to your situation. So that any thing can be solved from there. 10% to 15% of the earnings are spent on espionage Today, there is a normal increase in the budget behind detectives as a percentage compared to before. Baldev Puri said, "Earlier someone used to spend Rs 10 on detection, now he spends Rs 100. That is, his budget has been increased by Rs 90. This cannot be called growth. In terms of money, it looks like a very large amount, but in terms of percentage, about 10% to 15% of the earnings are spent on such investigations. Get a partner's digital footprint? Often, people also ask for a partner's digital footprint, but the detective agency refuses. He said that in all the calls received during the day, people have only one demand that the call details of that person be removed digitally, the location should be removed. In such a situation, we explain to them that under the Act that came into force in 2025, no one can conduct a digital inquiry of anyone. If this happens and is caught, he may have to pay a fine of up to Rs 250 crore. Because it is illegal to do so. We respect the Act and categorically deny such cases. On the same issue, Shiv Shah said, "Detectives like us work within the limits of the law. Once a person has any doubt in his mind, then he demands to check anything from his partner. They ask to monitor WhatsApp chats, Insta IDs, but all this is not possible. So we refuse to the client in this regard. 'Analyze your partner's behaviour patterns' Baldev Puri says that as of today, 65 per cent of people are spying on their partner only on the basis of suspicion. If everything has some plus points, then there are also minus points. When you are suspicious of your partner, first of all, analyze his behavior pattern. A character who looks perfect from appearance sometimes also proves to be terrifying, which is why Gujaratis, who spend millions of rupees in lavish wedding preparations, are now thinking it is better to know the true character of the partner by spending a little before marriage rather than ruining their lives.